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Steve's Life And Business Coaching Notes - March 2011
These little snowdrops are the first signs of spring in the garden.
1) 7 Common Myths on the Road to Enlightenment - For all the seekers out there strugging away on the path to higher awareness.
2) Business Development - This is part 5 in a series of articles to help you get dramatically more business from your web site. This month we talk more about composing your homepage.
3) Practice Building With Heart - Registration is open for this summer's affordable and proven practice building program.
1) 7 Common Myths on the Road to Enlightenment
Many people come to coaching to make very practical changes in their lives, careers or businesses that will lead to greater success and general well being.
A smaller percentage of people come to coaching at a stage in their journey where they have overcome certain challenges or achieved various milestones and find themselves wanting to explore questions like; “Is this really all there is? ” Sometimes they simply intuit that, “There must be more to life than this.” Another presentation of this energy is as a strong calling to seek their own path to a greater experience of “truth”, “reality”, “presence”, “God”, “freedom”, “enlightenment”, “awakening”, or “the Self”. (Someone on this type of journey is often called a “seeker”.) Such a line of inquiry can be termed spiritual, as it lies beyond conventional, tangible or material concerns.
Often, as soon as someone introduces the “s” word in a conversation, some people head for the exits. This is perfectly understandable. Spirituality is a much abused, maligned and confusing topic with lots of baggage. Almost everyone has been alienated by some dogmatic, specious or otherwise inappropriate set of beliefs being thrust on them. So if this is your response, I understand and wish you a very nice day.
However any serious exploration into higher levels of happiness and well being must surely lead beyond the offerings of the material world. And as someone with a rather serious, sometimes sceptical, logical, and yet open stance - who has spent 30 years studying the “s” topic - I encourage you not to throw out the baby with the bathwater. I say this because I have been down this road. Found dozens of dead ends, met countless charlatans and encountered my share of nuts. However along the way I have had big holes shot in what I thought was an unassailable scientific view of reality, and been profoundly inspired from the core teachings and perennial wisdom that underlie some of the world’s great spiritual traditions. I have also benefited from the compassion, direction and practices of a small number of living masters.
For seekers, it is said that there are many paths, but only one mountain. In practical terms this can be translated to acknowledge that while there are many teachings, practices and perspectives that may prove valuable to individuals seekers, they all lead towards a greater realization, deeper understanding and much higher awareness of what is real.
In serious spiritual circles, offering any sort of prescriptive advice is generally frowned upon. Seekers are encouraged to find the path or teacher of their choice, immerse themselves in the teaching or practice and stick with it.
Besides, millions of people who follow the traditional spiritual advice can literally spend decades grinding away at various practices (prayer, meditation, yoga, etc.) without ever finding what they are looking for or experiencing any lasting peace. So, millions of seekers remain adrift in a sea of frustration, confusion and false prophets. The search for greater freedom and peace turns into yet another endless and unfulfilling quest, another task or compulsion.
Consider my list of the 7 Common Myths of Awakening.
If you are called to explore the higher regions of awareness I would encourage you to find a daily practice that quiets your mind and opens your heart. Just be prepared to surrender both your concepts and practice a little further down the road. I would also encourage you to find a path, tradition or teacher that really resonates with you. You need to overcome your current limiting beliefs and learn enough knowledge to easily discern the unreal and temporal, from the real and eternal. With a quieter mind and an orienting context, it is much easier to live from your heart.
Keep in mind that one of the surest signs of spiritual progress is a lack of concern about spiritual progress. You don’t want to fall in love with spirituality rather, fall in love with truth.
“ What we are looking for is what is looking."
- St. Francis
2) Business Development - Web Marketing Basics Part 5
In our last installment we talked about some of the considerations involved in getting our ideal prospects to stop on the home page of our website and want to learn more about us.
If we have done our job well, we have directed their attention down a logical sequence of conversation where we might have talked about some of their common challenges, who we are and why we are a great choice, what we can help them achieve and how it might work, etc. And along the margins of our home page we might also include testimonials of happy clients and perhaps logos that speak to our credentials or expertise. (As new prospects may not know you from Adam, third party validation matters a lot.)
Assuming the prospect has made it this far, many of them will be ready for a next step. However, do not assume that the next step will be picking up the phone and hiring you. The vast majority of the visitors on our sites are going to be here for the first time, just gathering information, just sizing up what the options there are. They are not ready to make a decision on hiring you yet. So if you push them to call you, you are going to be disappointed 99% of the time and lose the chance to further the relationship. It is far better to offer them something they can say yes to.
Ten years ago, this was accomplished by offering them a newsletter. Five years ago, this might have been accomplished by offering them to subscribe to your blog. However since everyone and their dog offers newsletters and blogs – and nobody has enough time to read all the newsletters they would like to read, this no longer works well.
Today, it is far more effective to offer a compelling free report or e-course on some topic your audience will be genuinely interested in. If you have done your homework researching your niche, you probably have some good ideas of what their most persistent problems are. Thus it should not take you too long to condense your solutions/advice/wisdom/shortcuts into a short article something like “The 5 Key Lessons for (fill in the blank with your niche.)” The goal of the article is to further educate your client on the key issue they face, further raise your credibility as a solution provider, further make them aware that there are certain changes they cannot make easily on their own, further give them a feel for who you are as a person.
You want to make the report relevant and compelling, so most of your visitors will really want to read it. Because when they click on the link to get the free report, you also offer them a complimentary subscription to your newsletter.
That is when you really begin to harvest the fruits from your website. If you have done your keyword work well, every month you should have thousands of new visitors on your site. If you have done your homepage work well, hundreds and hundreds of them should be getting your free report and joining your newsletter list. And months down the road every time you send out another newsletter to thousands of your subscribers, many of them are going to finally be ready to hire you.
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